Recognizing when a girl likes is as simple as watching her body language and the way she interacts with you. But what about when a girl doesn’t like you. It can be hard to determine if she’s interested or not. Especially when your emotions are getting in the way and blinding you from the truth.
She’s too busy for a relationship
When a girl doesn’t like you she’ll want to reject you without completely hurting your feelings. If you ask her to be in a relationship she might use the classic excuse of I’m too busy for a relationship right now to let you down easy. The truth is a girl’s busy and hectic schedule won’t get in the way of her being in a relationship with a guy she really likes. So if you ever hear this excuse from a girl just know that she means she’s not too busy to be in a relationship she’s just too busy to be in a relationship with you.
She asks you about your love life
If a girl really likes you she wants to feel like she’s the only girl in your entire world. She wouldn’t dare ask you about other girls you’re dating because it can really ignite some jealousy within her. If a girl you’re interested in starts to ask you questions about your love life and other girls it’s definitely a sign that she’s not interested in you at all. At this point, you’re in the friend zone and once you’re there it’s almost impossible to escape.
She avoids touching you
When it comes to determining if a girl really likes you, paying attention to her body language when the two of you are together, can answer all of your questions. When a girl is interested in you, she can’t wait to be close to you, hug you and play with your hair and when a girl doesn’t like you, she’ll do the complete opposite. A girl who isn’t interested will keep some distance between the two of you and she will avoid touching you at all costs. She may even squirm a bit or brush you off if you get too close to her.
She never initiates
In the beginning stages, a girl may play hard to get by not texting you as much or waiting a few hours before texting you back. But if you and the girl you admire have known each other for a few weeks and she never initiates a text conversation it’s probably because she doesn’t like you. Most girls are glued to their phones and they love texting back and forth with a guy they’re crushing hard on. They will spill their guts in long and lengthy messages at all hours of the day. So if the girl you like isn’t making your hotline bling, it’s pretty clear the feeling isn’t mutual.
She never wants to be alone with you
You invite her out to a romantic dinner and she declines, but when you invite her to a day at the ballpark with a group of your mutual friends, she seemed so stoked. The girl who doesn’t like you will try her hardest not to be alone with you because she doesn’t want to send you mixed signals. She will try to keep all of your interactions within a group setting with your mutual friends to take some of the pressure off the situation. With her friends as a buffer, she knows you won’t try to make a move on her.
She’s always busy
I hate to break it to you fellas, but the girl you’re crushing on isn’t as busy as she says she is. A girl who doesn’t like you will find any excuse to blow off your date invitations. She might say she’s busy studying, she has to get up early to take her mom to the airport, or her dog is sick. If you keep asking her out and she’s always too busy to meet up with you, just take it as a sign that she probably doesn’t like you and spending time with you just isn’t on her to-do list.
Have you managed to get a girl to agree to go on a date with you, you can never be too sure that she’ll actually show up. The girl who really likes you will show up to your date looking amazing with a huge smile on her face, but the girl who doesn’t like you will flake out at the last minute. She will always blame it on a scheduling error or some other emergency popped up that she couldn’t control. If she flakes on you once give her another chance, but if she flakes on you multiple times it’s time to cut your losses and move on.
She talks about other guys
When a girl talks about other guys in front of you, she’s not trying to make you jealous so that you’ll like her more, she’s trying to let you know that she finds other men attractive, and she’s definitely way more interested in them than she is in you. She feels comfortable talking to you about her dating life because she only sees you as a friend.
She hooks you up with her friend
If a girl thinks that you’re a good guy, but you’re not the right guy for her, she’ll go out of her way to hook you up with one of her single friends. She wants you to be happy, but she knows for sure that the two of you aren’t compatible. By passing you off to one of her friends, this is her way of telling you she’s just not that into you.
She ignores you
No, she’s not playing hard-to-get. If a girl is outright ignoring you, it’s a sign that she’s just not that interested. Whether she’s ignoring your flirty comments on Facebook or avoiding your dm’s on Snapchat, if a girl isn’t interested in you it will be almost impossible to get and keep her attention. Instead of coming right out and telling you she doesn’t like you, she’ll ignore you in hopes that you’ll finally catch a clue and move on.
Do you think your crush may be trying to tell you that she doesn’t like you?